my Life, my Death, my Wishes
Bernice Benton

A comprehensive, conversational guide to lead you through all things relating to life’s last chapters: dying, death, funerals, and legacy. Its aim is to empower, inform, and guide individuals, and to facilitate conversations and planning within families.
With practical tips, how-to guides, and space for personal reflection, the prompts, checklists, and signposts gently help you to gather everything you need to navigate the end of life with confidence: your care, your death, your funeral, and your legacy.
About the Author
Bernice Benton is an independent celebrant specialising in end-of-life celebrations, as well as mainstream funerals and natural burials. Berni is also a doula, supporting people at end-of-life and with legacy planning.
A talented stained glass artist, Berni runs workshops in her local community.
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