Locations for a Memorial Service

Where Can I Hold a Memorial Service?

A memorial service can be held in any location and can take whatever form you wish. It may be a large, formal service with singing, readings and prayers, or an informal gathering or celebration of life. The type of service may inform the locaiton you choose.

The number of people expected, your budget, and even the time of year may have a bearing on where you choose. Think about where those who are coming to pay their respect are travelling from (good transport connections, etc), and whether you will have a reception after the service.

Here are some possible locations:

A Place of Worship

Like a funeral, a memorial service can be held at a place of worship. The content of the service can be very similar to a funeral, with readings, prayers, music, and hymns.

At Home

At home or at the home of a close family member or a friend. It can be stressful and time-consuming getting the house ready and preparing refreshments if you are serving them, so make sure you enlist the help of family and friends.

If you need extra space and you have an outdoor area, you could set up a tent or marquee in the garden.

In a Local Pub or Hotel

A favourite pub or a local hotel might have a reception room or space to hold a service.

In a Village Hall or Community Centre

Village halls and community centres usually have plenty of space and parking and most have kitchens attached if you wish to serve refreshments after the service.

At a Private Club or Local Sports Centre

If the person had a favourite hobby or sport, then this might be a good place to hold a memorial service. Most clubs and sports centres have catering facilities too.

Outdoors in the Open Air

Perhaps a gathering outdoors, in a special place such as a meadow, woodland clearing or on a beach. Being close to nature, perhaps somewhere that the person loved, can be a lovely way to feel close to them.

Think about accessibility and what you will do in case of bad weather.

Finding a Suitable Location

The main thing is to choose somewhere that feels right for you and your family. You can find lots of ieas in the Funeral Reception & Wake Venues Inspiration section, or find and connect to possible venues in our Provider Directory.